Introducing this and that
Here are some funĀ activities forĀ demonstrative pronouns to introduce the meaning of ‘this and that.’ In addition, the possessive adjectives ‘My and your’ are combined with this lesson plan.
Play a pointing game with your class using pens, pencils, and crayons. In fact, any common item will do. First, have students hold a crayon. Then, tape a crayon to the wall or board. Next, point to your crayon and say, āThis is my crayon.ā Finally, point to yourself on āmyā and to the crayon on ācrayon.ā Repeat with emphasis when you point!
Walk over to one student and have them hold their crayon in front of their face, then ask them to look at the crayon and say, āThis is my crayon.ā Now walk back to your crayon, standing next to it, say, āThis is my crayon,ā as you demonstrate ownership by pointing to your crayon and body. Explain that āthisā is for something nearby and āthatā is for something further away.
Now, point in each direction, saying, āTHIS is MY crayonā or āTHAT is YOUR crayon.ā Repeat three times, making sure you gesture with emphasis.
REPETITION
Have the entire class hold up a crayon while repeating āThis is my crayonā three times. Then have the classroom point to the child you were with earlier and say with you, āThat is your crayon,ā three times.
Make sure the students are pointing at the correct object. So, when they say, āThis is my crayon,ā make sure they point to their own crayon. When they say, āThat is your crayon,ā make sure they point at the child’s pen you were with before.
Point at your crayon on the board and ask, āIs this my crayon?ā Students reply, āYes, that is your crayon.ā Ask a student, āIs this your crayon?ā They answer, āYes, this is my crayon.ā
Tips for Demonstrative Pronouns Activities
For the best results with your demonstrative pronoun activities, it is crucial the children know all the nouns you use before introducing any pronouns. This, that, my, and your are the new words, which is enough to think about for now. If you teach new vocabulary simultaneously, it will be too much for the children to absorb.
Using real objects and space make ‘this and that’ easier to understand and remember than filling in worksheets.
More demonstrative pronoun activities
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LISTENING
All the children have a variety of familiar objects on their desks. The teacher can say, āThis is my eraser.ā All students then hold up their erasers, showing ownership. Then say, āThat is your eraser,ā but specify someone else’s eraser. Repeat, āThis is my eraser,ā and āThat is your eraserā with everyone pointing at another’s eraser. Make sure no one is gesturing with their eraser, which could confuse things! If pointing is rude, please use an acceptable alternative.
Then say, āThis is my leg.ā Have the class copy. Next, everyone says, āThis is my leg,ā and lifts up a leg, pointing at it. Carry on using different nouns such as, āThis is my ruler.ā āThat is your desk,ā and so on.
If the students are doing well, you can make it more intriguing by saying, āThis is my YELLOW backpack.ā Only the students with a yellow backpack can show them. This activity will work well with coloured markers or clothing.
Have students practise in pairs with items around them. Listen in checking for accuracy.
CIRCLE GAMES
Form small groups and place piles of possessions in the middle. A small group will avoid chaos. The children take out their possessions, saying, āThis is my pen, this is my lunchbox, and this is my book.ā Incidentally, by following this demonstrative pronoun lesson plan, you have started work on the play script from “CARS.” (30 Fun ESL Role-Plays for Children)
Play a circle game where the children pass around an object as the music plays. When the music stops, the student caught holding the object picks something out of the middle and says, āThis is myā¦ā or, āThat is your…ā Make sure if they say āthat,ā they are pointing at it, and not holding it. This is near, that is far.

HOT POTATO
Have the students pass around an object belonging to one student, such as a lunchbox. When you clap, the person holding the lunchbox says to the lunchbox owner, āTHIS is yours.ā If, by chance, the owner has the lunchbox when the music stops, he can say āTHIS is MINE.ā As the class becomes well-versed, add in more and more items to have several circulating at once.
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